You may dream of a bedroom that looks like it is straight out of a romance novel. Flowing drapes, a luxurious canopy that can envelope you with just a pull of a tassled cord and bedding made from the softest silk, piled so high that you feel you are a character in the Princess and Pea. The problem with all of that? You also have to actually use the room. You probably share it with kids and a dog or two.

You understand that the reality of such a room would soon mean Kool-Aid stained silk bedding and tassles turned dog toys. But just because you live in the real world doesn’t mean that you can’t add romantic touches to your bedroom.

One part of the room that can remain largely undisturbed by little hands (and big paws) is the walls. After choosing a soft paint color, try hanging some iron wall grilles. You can hang one over the bed, or try one either side above each nightstand.

The Vienna Wrought Iron Wall Grille is a perfect choice for a bedroom. The intricate design lends itself perfectly to a room full of romance. Even if your walls are otherwise bare, this iron wall grill is enough to be the focal point of your romantic hideaway.

Find wonderfully soft bedding, but if you allow kids and pets to romp freely, you may want to consider choices that are also easy to clean and that won’t rip too easily.

While you have to take your real life into consideration when making your selections, that doesn’t mean you can’t have the bedroom of your dreams today!

• November 2007